Event Overview

Join National Bat Monitoring Programme Project Officer for Norfolk and Norwich Bat Group, Abi Gray, for a fascinating evening exploring the world of bats.

• 30 minute talk in our Service Hall
• Followed by an 90 minute guided walk through our Woodland at dusk
• Refreshments provided
• Free to attend!

We advise you to bring torches and insect repellent. Please note; this event isn’t suitable for those with limited mobility.

We warmly welcome you!

Event Overview

Join us this autumn on Sunday 28 September for a beautiful day of nature, connection, and community spirit in the beautiful woodland setting of Epping Forest. 

Our Community Day is free to attend and promises something for everyone to enjoy: 

• Live singers and entertainment, including the vibrant Harlow Steel Band 

• Meet the friendly London Alpacas 

• Woodcarving and hedge laying demonstrations 

• Nature-themed fun for all the family 

• Delicious refreshments, fundraising stalls and so much more! 

No booking needed – everyone’s welcome!  

This special day out supports three wonderful causes: St Clare Hospice, Princess Alexandra Hospital, and Butterfly Effect Wellbeing. 

Grief is not a problem to be solved – it’s a journey we walk through, step by step. One of the oldest ways humanity has learned to navigate this journey is through ritual. Rituals help us honour a life, express love, and find meaning in loss. They bring people together. They slow us down. They help us begin to heal. 

At GreenAcres Living Memorial Parks, we see every day how meaningful rituals and the presence of a final resting place in nature can offer real comfort to grieving hearts. 

Why Rituals Matter 

When someone we love dies, we often feel adrift. Rituals whether large or small give us structure in the chaos. A funeral, a celebration of life service, a gathering around a tree – these moments allow us to: 

• Say goodbye in our own way 

• Celebrate a life with family and friends 

• Create shared memories we carry forward 

• Mark the start of healing 

A ritual doesn’t need to be traditional or formal. It can be personal, quiet, or even joyful – a reading, a song, a planting, or a moment of silence. The most powerful rituals are those that feel true to the person no longer with us and to the people who carry their memory. 

A Resting Place That Lives On 

One of the most enduring forms of ritual is choosing a final resting place. It offers something deeply human: a place to return to. 

At GreenAcres, our memorial parks are set in natural woodland environments – places of peace, beauty, and renewal. Families often tell us that having a living, growing space to visit gives them: 

• A place to reflect and remember 

• A connection to nature and the cycles of life 

• A way to include future generations in remembrance 

• A continuing sense of presence, rather than absence 

Whether it’s walking a familiar woodland path, sitting beside a tree planted in someone’s honour, or pausing by a simple grave marker in a glade, the act of visiting keeps their story alive. 

Keeping Their Memory Alive 

We believe that grief doesn’t end but it does evolve. And part of that evolution is finding ways to honour a life, not just mourn its loss. 

A final resting place in a natural setting offers a legacy: 

• It can host family rituals year after year – anniversaries, birthdays, or just moments when we feel the need to be near. 

• It gives children and grandchildren a connection to their roots and a space to understand the importance of remembrance. 

• It becomes part of the fabric of a family’s story – a place of love, memory, and continuity. 

Nature Supports Us 

There is something gently healing about nature. The quiet of the trees. The return of the seasons. The way wildflowers bloom again each spring. In a time of loss, these small rhythms remind us that life continues and that we, too, will grow through our grief. 

That’s why, at GreenAcres, we’re committed not only to honouring lives well lived but to providing sacred, sustainable places that support life, memory, and healing now and for generations to come. 

In Reflection 

Rituals remind us of what matters. Resting places root us in love. And both can offer comfort in a world that’s been changed forever. 

If you’re navigating the loss of a loved one, or planning ahead to support your own loved ones, we welcome you to explore our Living Memorial Parks. You’re not alone and there is peace, beauty, and meaning to be found in remembering. 

To find out more or organise a visit, contact us here. 

 

Grief is a deeply personal and often overwhelming journey. In the UK, where traditions and modern practices intertwine, understanding the role of funerals in the grieving process is essential. At GreenAcres Living Memorial Parks, we recognise the profound impact that meaningful farewells have on healing. 

What Is Direct Cremation? 

A direct cremation is an unattended cremation. This means there is no formal funeral service, no ceremony, and no family, friends, colleagues and so on are present at the crematorium. The person who has died is taken from their place of death and cremated at a later time. If requested, their ashes can be returned to their next of kin. 

The Rise of Direct Cremation in the UK 

You may have seen national funeral providers advertising ‘no-fuss cremations’, ‘Pure Cremation’, Unattended Cremation’ or ‘Simple Funeral’, often at lower costs, where the person who has died is collected and cremated at a central facility, sometimes many miles away from their home. While the marketing of direct cremation as a low-cost alternative is relatively new, local funeral directors have been arranging unattended cremations for generations, offering them as part of their wider services. 

However, while direct cremation honours the wishes of those who prefer not to have a service, it’s important to consider the impact on those left behind. Grieving is a deeply personal journey, and for many, having a place and time to say goodbye plays a crucial role in that process. 

Considering the Needs of the Bereaved 

Many people choose direct cremation because they do not want a traditional funeral, or they wish to keep things simple. However, funeral directors also understand that saying goodbye is important for those left behind. 

With direct cremation, families may face difficult choices: 

• No opportunity to attend the cremation – Some people find comfort in witnessing the cremation, which direct cremation does not allow 

• The deceased may remain in a mortuary for a longer period – unlike traditional funerals, where services are arranged quickly, direct cremations are often scheduled based on availability, sometimes resulting in delays 

• The cremation may take place many miles away – large national firms offering direct cremation may transfer the deceased to a distant central crematorium, rather than using a local facility 

For some families, not knowing when or where the cremation is taking place can make it harder to process the loss. Others may feel they have been denied the chance to honour their loved one in a meaningful way. 

Balancing Wishes with Remembrance 

If direct cremation is the right choice for your loved one, there are still ways to make it meaningful for those grieving: 

• Plan a separate memorial or celebration of life at a later date 

• Choose a funeral director who offers local, dignified care rather than a national provider that transports the deceased elsewhere 

• Discuss options with your funeral director, as they may offer flexibility in arrangements, such as a moment of private reflection before the cremation 

Is Direct Cremation Right for You? 

Choosing any funeral arrangement is a deeply personal decision. For some, direct cremation aligns with their wishes for simplicity. For others, it may feel too detached or distant. What matters most is that the arrangements respect the wishes of the person who has died, while also providing comfort to those left behind. 

If you are considering direct cremation, speaking with a local funeral director can help you make an informed decision – one that honours both the person who has passed and the needs of those who will cherish their memory. 

Creating a Lasting Tribute at GreenAcres Living Memorial Parks 

At GreenAcres Living Memorial Parks, we offer families the opportunity to hold a Celebration of Life or Memorial Service in our peaceful, nature-rich surroundings. These gatherings provide a meaningful way to come together, share memories, and say goodbye in a setting that feels personal and comforting. 

For those who would like a lasting place of remembrance, we also offer options for: 

• Interring (burying) ashes in a dedicated memorial plot within our serene woodlands, wildflower meadows, orchards, lawn and gardens 

• Scattering ashes in a carefully chosen location, ensuring a permanent tribute in nature 

• Living Memorial Trees, where ashes can be buried alongside a tree that will grow in their memory 

• Above the ground Ash Boulders, handcrafted UK stone, these above the ground stone boulders allow you flexibility if you decide to move the ashes at a later date 

Choosing a Celebration of Life or a permanent memorial allows families to create their own rituals of remembrance, ensuring that their loved one’s memory lives on in a place of beauty and tranquillity. 

If you would like to explore how GreenAcres can support you in planning a Celebration of Life, an ashes interment, or a scattering ceremony, please get in touch with our team.

Grief is a deeply personal and often overwhelming journey. In the UK, where traditions and modern practices intertwine, understanding the role of funerals in the grieving process is essential. At GreenAcres Living Memorial Parks, we recognise the profound impact that meaningful farewells have on healing. 

The Role of Funerals in the Grieving Process 

Funerals serve as a pivotal point in the journey of grief. They provide a structured environment where emotions can be expressed, memories shared, and support systems reinforced. According to the NHS, acknowledging grief and allowing oneself to mourn is a crucial step towards healing.  

Ceremonies offer a sense of closure, helping individuals transition from the immediate shock of loss to the acceptance of a new reality. They facilitate the expression of sorrow, celebration of life, and the beginning of adaptation to life without our loved one. 

GreenAcres Living Memorial Parks: A Sanctuary for Remembrance 

At GreenAcres, we provide more than just a final resting place; we offer a sanctuary where families can commemorate their loved ones amidst nature’s tranquillity. Our Parks are designed to reflect the individuality of each person, allowing for personalised ceremonies and a final resting place that resonate with the lives they lived. 

Our approach emphasises the therapeutic benefits of nature, providing a serene backdrop that fosters reflection and peace. By integrating natural beauty with commemorative practices, we aim to support the emotional well-being of the bereaved. 

The Considerations Surrounding Direct Cremations 

In recent years, direct cremations have gained popularity due to their simplicity and cost-effectiveness. This method involves cremating the deceased without a preceding funeral service. While this option may suit certain preferences, it’s important to consider its implications on the grieving process.  

The absence of a formal ceremony can sometimes lead to feelings of unresolved grief. Without the opportunity to mourn, share memories, or receive communal support, individuals may find it challenging to process their loss fully. As noted by grief specialists, the lack of ritualistic closure can impede emotional healing.

Embracing Personalised Farewells 

Choosing a funeral that reflects the unique life of our loved one can be a powerful step towards healing. Personalised services, whether traditional or contemporary, provide a platform for expressing grief, celebrating life, and fostering connections among family and friends. 

At GreenAcres, we encourage families to design ceremonies that honour their loved ones’ personalities, beliefs, and values. By doing so, we aim to create meaningful experiences that aid in the grieving process and offer lasting comfort. 

Conclusion 

Grieving is an intricate process, and the manner in which we say goodbye plays a significant role in our journey towards healing. While direct cremations may offer simplicity, they may not provide the emotional support and closure that traditional or personalised funerals can offer. 

GreenAcres Living Memorial Parks are dedicated to supporting individuals through their grief by providing spaces that honour life, facilitate mourning, and promote healing. We believe that through thoughtful ceremonies and the embrace of nature, families can find solace and strength in their time of loss. 

For more information on planning a meaningful farewell, please contact GreenAcres Living Memorial Parks. Our compassionate team is here to support you every step of the way.

For many, Mother’s Day represents a day of celebrations. But if you’ve lost your mum or mother-figure, or you are a mother who has lost a child, it can be a day filled with grief and sadness. Even the simplest things can remind us of the loved ones we’ve lost, which is why it’s important to take care of yourself as Mother’s Day approaches. We’ve collected together some advice to help you cope with this difficult time while you’re grieving for a lost loved one.   

Don’t feel pressured 

Families often make plans to celebrate Mother’s Day. However, you don’t need to feel pressured to join in with them. Family and friends may invite you along to stop you from feeling left out, but they will understand if you don’t feel up to it. It’s OK to say no and it’s OK not to be OK.  Instead, do things that you feel are right for you – like being close to nature and having a walk, watching a film, making your favourite food or listening to music that brings you happy memories or distracting yourself with your favourite hobbies.  

Write down how you’re feeling 

If you struggle to articulate how you feel, you could write your feelings down in a letter or card. Grief isn’t always an easy thing to make sense of, but giving yourself a chance to think about how you feel can help you cope with your grief – particularly when it’s more heightened around Mother’s Day.  

Share your loved ones memory 

Sharing memories of your loved one with family and friends is a wonderful way to honour them on Mother’s Day. You could get together over a cup of tea or start an online chat if you don’t feel up to seeing people. If you’ve turned your mum’s social media accounts into an online memorial, you can share tributes on there, too. There are also many online communities that bring comfort by sharing supportive messages on grief and loss, like Grief Speaks Out. 

Hold a memorial service 

You may take solace from holding a memorial service for your loved one on Mother’s Day. The service doesn’t have to be anything big. Simply lighting a candle or planting a beautiful plant are great ways to remember that special person.  

Get support at our monthly GreenAcres Bereavement Cafés 

When you lose someone you love meeting others who can relate to how you feel can help. We offer a kind, supportive space with understanding from others who are also living life after loss.  

Often it is difficult to walk through the door to somewhere new especially when you are grieving. We promise you a warm welcome from our experienced and compassionate team along with tea, coffee and cake. For more information, click here.

Join us for our Mother’s Day Remembrance event 

We invite you to our Mother’s Day event on Sunday 30th March at your local GreenAcres Park – a time to honour cherished memories, reflect, and remember those who are no longer with us. You will also have the opportunity to light a candle and tie a memorial heart on our Remembrance Tree

Find out more about our Mother’s Day event here.